Obituary

Wendy Kay Miller (nee’ Raftenberg), beloved daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, cousin and friend, passed away on November 14, 2024, at the age of 78. Adored daughter of the late Marcy and Mike Raftenberg, Wendy was the cherished high school sweetheart and devoted wife of Glen Miller for 57 years. She was a dedicated and loving mother to Lauren (Jamie) Izaks, Matthew (Beth) Miller, and David (Sonya) Miller, and a proud Granny to Max and Abby Izaks, Allison and Olivia Miller, and Claudia and Vivian Miller. Wendy was the beloved sister of Paula (the late Michael) Avchen, a cherished aunt to Rebecca Avchen, Julie (Andi) Avchen, and a great-aunt to Mari, Rachel, and many others. Wendy was known for her kindness and unwavering loyalty, which made her a cherished friend and confidante to many. She was dedicated to her community, serving as a docent at the Illinois Holocaust Museum and strongly supporting the Alzheimer’s Association and Northwestern’s Buddy Program. Her philanthropic spirit touched countless lives, embodying her lifelong commitment to compassion and giving back. Wendy’s warmth, kindness, and unwavering commitment to her family, friends, and community defined her life. Her legacy is a testament to the power of compassion, family bonds, and friendship, and she will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her. Memorial donations may be made in honor of Wendy Miller to support the Buddy Program to the Miller Alzheimer’s Family Support Program Fund, c/o Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine, 420 E. Superior Street, 9th Floor, Chicago, IL 60611 or www.feinberg.northwestern.edu/giving. Interment Shalom Memorial Park. Chapel services will be held Sunday, November 17, 2024; 10 AM at Shalom Memorial’s chapel and graveside, 1700 West Rand Road, Arlington Heights. For the link to view the service, shiva information and to leave condolences: www.shalommemorial.org or (847) 255-3520.

Service Information

Service : Sunday, November 17th at 10:00 am
Service Location: Shalom Chapel Service -Shalom Memorial Funeral Home

Interment:
Shalom Memorial Park
1700 W. Rand Road
Arlington Heights

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November 24th, 2024

Wendy was a beautiful person and a cherished friend. May you be comforted by many happy memories of her. My condolences.

~Edie Cohen
~Friend, Bannockburn, Illinois

November 18th, 2024

Wendy and I were cousins who met when we were children.. My Mother and Father had taken me to visit Aunt Rae and Uncle Max in Chicago, and cousin Wendy and I immediately became good friends. We were pen pals for many years, and as adults we visited each other in Chicago and Boston several times. She was a wonderful cousin. I will miss her terribly, but I will cherish the memories of our times together. Her Boston family sends its deepest condolences to Glen and all the Chicago family.

Cousin Ellen Shapiro

~Ellen Shapiro
~Cousin, Sharon, MA

November 18th, 2024

Condolences to Glen and entire family. Those who knew her well, tell me Wendy was truly a wonderful person. And, she will be sorely missed. Take care of each other.

~Garry Buzil
~OLD FRIEND, LINCOLNSHIRE

November 16th, 2024

My condolences to Wendy’s family. I was a docent with her and she was kind , understanding and thoughtful. I enjoyed tours with her. She spoke lovingly about her family. May her memory be for a blessing.

~Linda Zolt
~, Des Plaines IL

November 16th, 2024

I am deeply saddened by the loss of Wendy My late wife and I loved her kindness and compassion for others. My heartfelt condolences to her husband Glen and her children and grandchildren. May our memories of her always be a blessing.

~Edward M Rothschild
~My wife was Wendy’s cousin, Vernon Hills

November 16th, 2024

I have known Jamie and Lauren for almost 15 years. I have seen the great kids that they have raised in Max and Abby.

Recently almost 4 months ago I got to met Lauren’s dad Glen.
It was apparent to me when I met Glen the love he had for his family.

I waIs very impressed with listening to Glen’s words of love, empathy, and the way in which he honored his wife over these last difficult months.

This family are simply good people and I am proud to call them my friends.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Love
Rich Rossi

~Rich Rossi
~Friend of the family, BUFFALO GROVE

November 15th, 2024

Wendy’s Words of Wisdom when I met her when Lauren and Heather were in kindergarten: “If you don’t advocate for your daughter, who do you think is going to?” I thought of these words many times.

~Randee Blair
~friend, Northbrook

November 14th, 2024

My sincere condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family in this difficult time. May you have no more sorrows.

~Alicja Kolendo
~Acquaintance, Park Ridge

November 14th, 2024

Every memory is embedded in my heart! Wendy was a force that made life fun! And we had fun!! I’m so grateful for all the years we shared.
Sending Love ,
Joy

~Joy Dordick
~Dear Friend, Wilmette, IL

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