Louisa Bradlow Carman

November 14th, 2024

Louisa and I met in a class together we took at Northwestern during one of their summer programs. We took some kind of international relations class that time. We were in 8th/9th grade, so it’s been a while, but she was my bestie during those many weeks. I think we actually first met at a math class prior, so we had actually kind of got reconnected that time.

I remember just being so out of loop in that class because the course wasn’t necessarily my strong suit (I was more of a science person, but decided to try something different), and I just remember how smart she was. We had to give final presentations, and at my small age, I remember being astonished at how articulate she was. Everything she said was just delivered so beautifully, and it was so clear how much research and thought she put behind her work. Honestly though, I just loved her energy more than anything. I remember laughing with her so much because for some reason we just really got each other.

Today, I found out about her passing. Reading the messages that people wrote to her about how she was taking off into her career and her creativity and passion as a dancer just really makes it so clear how much she’s already been such an influential force during her time. It didn’t surprise me at all, but it did really move me. I can’t imagine how hard it must be for the people close to her. She was quite literally an angel.

Rest in peace Louisa <3

~Nina
~Old friend, Brooklyn, NY

March 16th, 2024

Dear Ann, Glen, and Evan,
We are thinking about your family and remembering Louisa from the dance center and from EDE–in particular the LWW rehearsals and performances.
As parents we come to admire all of the youngsters who team up, but some teammates stand out. Louisa was a special one, as these many comments collectively convey.
We share your grief.
Jeff & Dori (Maple & Zephyr’s folks)

~Dori Conn and Jeff Balch
~Dance Center friends, Evanston

January 26th, 2024

Dear Ann, Glen and Evan,

I was shocked and heartbroken beyond words upon learning today of Louisa’s tragic passing.
I met Louisa in person only once, after a beautiful dance performance that I remember fondly, “The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe”. Her warmth, beauty, vivacious personality, so similar to her mother’s, were impossible to miss even during such a brief encounter. I learned more about Louisa through the life stories and news that Ann shared with me. I was proud of her achievements at such a young age and exited for the positive change that she was going to make in the world.
Louisa shares a birthday with my eldest son, a lovely coincidence that Ann and I celebrated each year after becoming aware of it. The day will be dearer and hold a deeper significance for me from now on.
By all accounts, Louisa lived her life to the fullest and used her intelligence, knowledge, kindness, passions, and generosity to make the world a better, kinder, more just, more beautiful place. In her short life, Louisa was able to make such a remarkable impact in the world and leave behind her unique mark. Louisa’s was a life very well lived and her legacy will continue to touch and inspire many.
To her beautiful family: I hope that you find solace in the profound love and beautiful memories that Louisa gifted you with. May her memory be a blessing!

We wish you great strength during this unthinkably difficult time and we embrace you with love.

Dorina, Ahmet, Arber, Alex and Dani

~Dorina Strori
~Friend and mentee of Ann, Evanston, IL

January 17th, 2024

Dear Ann,
I just heard today about the tragic incident and was shocked beyond belief! I wish you and your family much strength and peace. May your daughter rest in peace and may her memories bring comfort, joy and inspiration to all.

Sincerest condolences,
Abeer

~Abeer Alwan
~Friend of Ann, Los Angeles, CA

January 12th, 2024

Dear Glen and Family,

My deepest sympathy for the loss of such a beloved and wonderful daughter and sister. I did not know her but admire greatly the mark she made on the world in the time she was here. The memorial was a beautiful tribute. Its clear she was the best combination of brilliant and caring. May her memory be for a blessing.

~Megan Marshall
~colleague, Chicago

January 11th, 2024

Dearest Ann, Glen, Evan and Bradlow Clan,

Words cannot address the enormity of the loss of life of someone so brilliant and beautiful with unusual passion and dedication to improving the lives of those less fortunate. As a child, her grandmother Daphne referred to her as a copy of her mother (sorry, Glen), disciplined and focused, who embraced challenges with humor and grace while maintaining determination and confidence.

May you all have long and healthy lives without additional sorrow – this tragedy is simply too much to bear.

With much love,

Harriet Kluger (Stein)

~Harriet KLuger
~Lifelong friend of Ann and the Bradlow family, Milford

January 9th, 2024

Dear Glen and family,

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I remember so well when we would see each other at the Evanston Dance Studio, and even when our families bumped into each other at the I-88 Dekalb Oasis en route to Iowa City.

Since those long ago days, I see that you raised a beloved young adult whose spirit will surely live in all those whose lives she touched. May her memory be a blessing on all of us.

“In the depth of winter I found that, deep within me, there lay an invincible summer.” Albert Camus

May the sun warm you again as Louisa’s memory warms our broken hearts.

~ceil miller-bouchet
~friend, Iowa City

January 9th, 2024

Hi, Glen! I never met your daughter, but she sounds a brilliant and overall great human being. I am sorry for your loss and wish you peace.

~Martha M Martinez-Firestone
~Colleague, Chicago

January 8th, 2024

Dear Glen, Ann and Evan, please accept our sincere condolences. We remember Louisa from Baker where her kindness, vitality and warmth were on display on a daily basis. I will forever remember her dancing at the Baker talent show. I know that was so long ago and that she had accomplished so much since then. However, it seems that the love of dance continued throughout her life. We send you a warm embrace and prayers of comfort.

With love,
Zanussi family

~Elena, Tom, Sophia and Zoe Zanussi
~Friend, Evanston

January 7th, 2024

Dear Glen, Ann and Evan,
I did not know Louisa personally but as your colleague for many decades, my heart goes out to you at this time. of loss. May You have all the strength you need during this time of loss. Sending you my best wishes.

~Shailja Sharma
~Glen’s colleague,

January 7th, 2024

Dear Ann, Glen, and Evan,

Please accept my condolences on your loss. During this challenging time and in the coming months, know that my thoughts are with you.

With all my love,
Yossi

~Yossi Keshet
~Friend and colleague of Ann, Tel Aviv

January 7th, 2024

We knew Louisa as a child and she was smart and kind. She was the quiet leader in groups and her insight and perspectives benefitted all even as a young person.
We send our deep condolences to the Bradlow-Carman family.

~Tom, Kimeri, Carmin, Theo, Chester Beck
~Baker Friends, Skokie, IL

January 7th, 2024

Dear Ann, Glen, and Evan,
I wish I had had the opportunity to meet Louisa, but just from having heard some of Ann’s family stories I can feel something of the love, energy and joy of life she gave all of you, and how she touched the lives of so many. Please accept my sincere condolences on this unimaginable loss. Pam Souza

~Pamela Souza
~Colleague and friend, Evanston, IL

January 6th, 2024

I had the joy and privilege of teaching Lousia for both her 2nd and 3rd grade years. Her chosen nickname in third grade was “Joy Jumper” which fit her so well. She found joy in everything and loved to learn. She was so curious and really sought to understand the world around her. I am not surprised to hear the path she chose after leaving Baker. The world has lost a treasure and my heart goes out to all her family and friends.
Jen Rappin Levy

~Jennifer L Levy
~Teacher, Chicago

January 6th, 2024

Dear Ann and family,
Please accept my deepest condolences . Words are difficult to find. Although I did not meet Louisa, I have a bright mental image of her through your stories, Ann. Thank you for sharing them with me.
Sending you much love and strength
Ioana

~Ioana Chitoran
~Friend and colleague, Paris, France

January 5th, 2024

While directing middle school dancers, one gets used to fielding dramas and catastrophes on a regular basis. I recall more than one occasion during ede2 rehearsals and performances hearing after the fact how Louisa calmly saved the day–breaking out her needle and thread to repair a broken costume on the fly or patiently helping a fellow dancer locate a lost item. Even as an eighth grader she brought surprising maturity and serenity to every situation. She met every problem as a puzzle to be solved. Her dancing was like that, too. She was talented, to be sure, but to watch her move was to witness someone delightfully and deliberately present, relishing in every nuance of weight and connection and flow as a new discovery. She was a beautiful, thoughtful, and open-souled artist.

As a teacher, one meets students to whom we have much to give and those who have much to give to us. For me, Louisa was very much the latter. I feel lucky to have known her.

With gratitude,
Ms. Allie

~Allison Kurtz Volkers
~dance teacher, Chicago

January 5th, 2024

Dearest Ann, Glen, Evan and Vitor
The grief you are suffering is incomprehensible .and immeasurable,
I extend to your entire family my heartfelt condolences on the tragic loss
Of your precious Louisa
I am humbled by the outpouring of love and admiration for such a special person May you gain comfort from one another and treasured memories of happy times together
May Louisa Rest in Peace
Fondest love. Cousin Linda

~Linda Ruskin
~Cousin, Vaughan Ont. Canada

January 5th, 2024

My deepest condolences to Louisa’s loved ones. My last memory of her and I is when we met in Jim Thorpe with Vitor and two other friends last year. We talked about astronomy during our car ride, wondering if it was possible to see Orion’s belt from her home in Princeton during that time of year. We window-shopped and laughed at a group of dancing llama puppets we saw while looking for a place to sit and play a card game together. I will cherish the memories I have with her, it is difficult to understand that there will not be more with her. She radiated kindness and I hope to continue that sentiment in her memory. May she rest in peace, my heart goes out to her family.

~Cindy
~College friend, Philadelphia, PA

January 5th, 2024

Queridos Glen, Ann, Evan y Vitor,

Aunque no hay palabras justas que sienta que pueda expresar, sólo quiero que sepan que los llevo en mi corazón y les mando mi más sentido pésame. Que los recuerdos, amor, cariño y la excepcional vida de Louisa se conviertan en una luz en su camino.

~Olga Salazar
~Colleague and friend, Minneapolis, MN

January 5th, 2024

Dear Glen and Ann,

We want to express our shock and sorrow at hearing that Louisa has passed and how deeply fond our memories of her and of you both remain. From the first time Alex told us that Mr. Gallagher “had a friend” for her and then we were introduced, Louisa’s grace, shining beauty, great good humor, mathematical and all other intelligence, and dedication to social justice were clear. It is a blessing that Alex got to be her friend in high school. As parents we are filled with the recognition of the terribleness of the loss of a child, and extend our deep sympathy. We are holding you in our hearts.

~Mike and Liz Kruse
~Parents of Louisa’s H.S. Friend Alex, Chicago, Il

January 5th, 2024

Dearest Anne, Evan and Glen,

I am grateful to have had the privilege of meeting Louisa on two occasions when you were in South Africa. I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you love and courage in these trying times.

~Eric Koseff
~Anne and Evan’s friend, Johannesburg

January 5th, 2024

When Louisa was about 10, I visited Glen and his family in Evanston. My name is also Luiza, so that she and I are xarás. With very good reason, Louisa found the coincidence confusing. We decided that from then on, my childhood nickname, Zee, would be the name I would have in her family. Evan must have been about four, so I wonder if he remembers this visit.
Glen and Ann, I just attended the livestream of the service. It was beautiful. Louisa seems a wonderful daughter, sister, partner, and human being. I can’t imagine the pain her loss must give you. I hope that in time her memory will come to bring you some joy and less pain.
Abraço forte, Vítor.

~Luiza Moreira and Dale Tomich
~family friend, VESTAL

January 5th, 2024

Dear Ann, Glen and all the Bradlow families,
Thinking of you at this tragic time. It is clear from all the wonderful messages that Louisa’s passing is a loss to a whole community. May you always find comfort and strength through the legacy she has left behind from her time in this world. Wishing you all long lives. May Hashem comfort you among the mourners of Tzion and Yerushalayim.
Steven Ruskin & Family.

~Steven Ruskin & Family
~Cousin, Toronto

January 5th, 2024

I have not know Louisa for a long time. I was lucky enough to be able to speak with her at the occasional lab event of her partner Vitor.

A particular memory continues to play through my mind. About a month ago, I was finishing up some work in the lab. At around 10 PM, Louisa and Vitor unexpectedly arrived, dressed to the nines coming from an event dinner with the New Jersey governor. They both took the time to come and help me finish some small tasks. I was working on something around the hall, but was drawn into another room by their thunderous laughter.

Everyone in the lab new of their deep love and admiration for each other. It was present in everything that they did together.

My time with her was brief, but she always left such a positive impact. I am so deeply sorry for your loss, and she will be forever missed.

~Melanie Edwards
~Friend, Princeton, NJ

January 5th, 2024

When I saw Louisa first time, she was a little girl, studying next to her mother, my PhD advisor, Prof. Ann Bradlow. I remember her kind and shy smile with her bright eyes, looking much like her mom.

I know how much Ann was proud of Louisa. For years, I have heard about her dancing, her student and other life through her mother’s love and hope. Last time I heard about her was last October, when I visited Chicago for a conference. My 10-year-old son, Saem and I had a lovely dinner with Ann, Ann showed me a picture of her kids and told me that Louisa would enter a law school soon. As Louisa’s journey reminded me of the one of one of my students’, I told Ann that I would introduce them to each other. I clearly remember Ann’s face and eyes at the moment I was telling her all those things. After coming back from the trip, I was forgetting about it for a few months now… I wish I had thought about it earlier and had a chance to talk to her in person, when I could.

Thank you so much for letting us be in the service online. I only wish I could be there for you, Ann, Glen, and Evan, in person. Love you so much. Hope peace be with you.

Midam.

~Midam Kim
~Ann’s advisee, Lawrence, KS

January 5th, 2024

No parent should have to know this sorrow. So deeply upset at your terrible loss.
Love Colin Ruskin.

~Colin Ruskin
~Cousin, Canada

January 5th, 2024

To the family of Louisa, I am so sorry for your loss. Although I did not know Louisa, loss is universal isn’t it? As such, I feel a fraction of what you must be feeling today. I wish you well. Mary Stainback – Friend to Berenice

~Mary Stainback
~Friend to Louisa’s Aunt, Berenice, Baltimore, Maryland

January 5th, 2024

Getting to know Louisa, having made memories with her, and having formed connections with her has been such an honor. I had the privilege of living with her during our last semester at college. The six of us on that floor in Palmer felt like a little family. We’d come to each other for advice, for movie and game nights, and for meals. A core memory of mine with her was when we had a heart-to-heart as women with experiences in a flawed healthcare system. Even after going our separate ways, when I saw her last, we spoke of promise at starting our prospective careers, surrounded by the fall foliage at Princeton. I’ll cherish these memories like gemstones; some living as photographs and some forever etched within me. She was an amazing friend, dancer, and monopoly-player. My heart breaks at the emptiness she has left within everyone who loved her; it truly leaves me speechless.

~Natalie Balbuena
~Friend, Woodbridge, VA

January 5th, 2024

Dear Ann,
What a short life, Louisa s’life but how rich and intense life, much more than the longer lives of many people !
With all my compassion in the face of such a terrible ordeal.
Christian

~Sonjon
~Ann s’friend, Paris, France

January 5th, 2024

To Louisa’s family and friends, my thoughts are with all of you at this time of loss. I had the great pleasure of working on a shared project with Louisa when she was in the Governor’s office. Louisa was remarkable for her kindness, commitment and unflappability. In a high pressure environment, she kept everything moving calmly and smoothly, and was such a joy to work with. I am sorry that the world has lost her brilliant light far too soon, and my heart goes out to each of you who held Louisa dear.

~Ann Hwang
~colleague, Boston, MA

January 5th, 2024

My earliest memory of Louisa is making fun of other kids from places with terrible public transit during orientation. Which I think represents both how funny she was as well as a sign of her commitment to public causes and her career to come.

As with most college orientation friendships, we did not remain close throughout our time at Swarthmore. However, I consider myself lucky to have met her and to have run in similar circles in our academic careers. She was always a welcome smile and “hello” and “good morning” to run into around campus.

I was very fortunate to see Louisa and Vitor at a friend’s housewarming this past fall where we began to make plans for double dates. It was nice to see she had not lost an ounce of her wit or passion for improving the lives of others. I remember being very impressed when she spoke about the effect she was having through her job.

I can only imagine what Louisa’s family must be going through and extend my condolences as they grieve. I hope that the family and Louisa can find peace after this tragedy.

I am heartbroken that we weren’t able to become good friends once again as we were hoping. I can only feel gratitude that we could catch up when we did. I will miss you, Louisa.

~Samuel Sheppard
~Classmate, Swarthmore, New York, NY

January 5th, 2024

Louisa was one of my closest friends at Dance Center Evanston and a positive, loving, and compassionate light for all around her.

Her kindness warmed a room, her work ethic and presence inspired, and her ferociousness in performance awed.

My first time meeting Louisa was in a modern class with our Beatles themed recital piece and I was just a nervous little kid who desperately wanted to make a friend. I remember as I watched her go across the floor in triplets, her smile kind and bright, I thought “she’ll be my friend for sure”. Since then Louisa has been an amazing and grounding presence in my life and although we may have parted ways physically due to our callings elsewhere, we were always in one another’s corner. Louisa will always and forever be one of my dearest friends.

Rest in power my friend. I adore you.

~Sidney Chuckas
~Friend of Louisa,

January 5th, 2024

Dear Glen, Ann and family members, Please accept my warmest condolences .
Louisa will be greatly missed but her warmth, kindness, and gentle spirit will be remembered forever.
Louis Liu

~Louis Liu
~Colleague, friend, Chicago, IL

January 5th, 2024

Dear Glen, Ann, and Evan,
Words are inadequate to express the depth of our sorrow and sympathy. You are in our thoughts and prayers, and we extend our most heartfelt condolences.
We are in awe of Louisa‘s extraordinary accomplishments in her young life. Our world is a better place for her presence. She was a bright light that will forever shine in the hearts of those she touched.
With deepest sympathy,
Jennifer, Eric, and Sarah Whitelaw

~Jennifer Whitelaw
~Colleague and Friend, Livestreaming from Florida

January 5th, 2024

Whenever I think of Louisa, her laugh is the first thing that comes to mind. It was a slow-starting, deliberate laugh that would begin with a grin and then become full and clear. That memory stands out because it is emblematic of her personality: in so many ways, she was deliberate and thoughtful about her actions. Whenever she did commit to something, her commitment was complete and clear. From politics, law, and human rights to her personal actions and relationships, her full-hearted striving to be a good person was apparent to all who knew her. The world and her friends have lost one of our brightest lights. Her presence in our lives was too brief, yet our lives have been made so much richer by having known her. She will be dearly missed, and her memory will be forever cherished.

~Timothy W. Schwanitz
~Friend, Princeton, New Jersey

January 5th, 2024

Dear Ann, Glen , Evan and Bradlow clan,
Wishing you long life. May you find comfort in the wonderful memories you have of Louisa. I am so very sorry that you are going through this. It is clear from reading these that Louisa was a very special person and was well liked by those that met her. Sending you hugs and strength to cope. May she rest in peace.
Jodi Schneider (Ruskin) and family

~Jodi Schneider (nee Ruskin)
~Cousin, Thornhill Ontario Canada

January 5th, 2024

As a mother, I can’t get my brain to accept what it would take to accurately express my condolences. I remember Louisa a couple years older than my daughter at Baker, but more specifically at DCE. She was quiet, unassuming, kind, and a very strong dancer. Her innate kindness, though, is what has stuck with me. She was very sweet and encouraging to my daughter who was shy both on and off stage. She was unwavering toward her, supporting her during a point in time that was challenging socially within the competitive ranks of the dance studio. I wasn’t surprised to hear over the years she had accomplished so much and with a dedication toward social change! The world has lost one of the truly good ones and I share in that grief.

~Christina Robertson
~Acquaintance, Evanston IL

January 5th, 2024

Queridos Glen , Ann , Evan y familia. La que yo considero mi familia. No tengo palabras para este momento solamente sentimientos , difíciles de expresar . Mi corazón está con vosotros cada minuto, desde que supimos lo que había pasado, que todavía no nos acabamos de creer. Os enviamos mi familia y yo todo el cariño y mucha fuerza . Desde que Glen vino a Madrid hace ya 40 años., habéis sido para mí, familia. Aquí tengo en el corcho de los mejores recuerdos esa foto que nos enviasteis de los cuatro cuando fuisteis a visitar Machu Picchu. Esa foto de cuatro personitas maravillosas. He tenido la suerte de estar con vosotros allí y aquí y la suerte de conocer a Luisa, ese angelito siempre sonriente y tan maravillosa por dentro y por fuera. mi corazón y el de mi familia está con vosotros. Os quiero
Mar

~Mar
~Amiga, Madrid, spain

January 5th, 2024

I spoke with Louisa about dance at Swarthmore and was her TA for Econ 1. She was incredibly pleasant, studious, and dedicated. My condolences and we will all miss her dearly.

~Lijia
~Schoolmate,

January 5th, 2024

I will always remember Louisa as an amazingly funny, smart, and genuine person. She was an incredible friend who always showed up no matter how silly the reason. One of my favorite memories was during sophomore year at Swarthmore; Louisa, Alyssa, Emma, Xia, and I rented out an entire venue on campus to throw a cake party, which was essentially just an excuse to try this really beautiful earl grey cake we spotted on Instagram. We made a day of it, blocking off time to just hang out, listen to music, and eat cake together. It was lighthearted and fun and delicious.

Louisa was an amazing person. I miss her deeply and wish her peace.

~Adero
~Friend, Pittsburgh, PA

January 5th, 2024

Dear Ann, Glen, and Evan,

I am so very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies are with you now and during the days and months ahead.
May your memories keep her close.

all my love,
Kate

~Kate Davis
~Ann’s grad school friend and lab mate, Seattle, WA

January 5th, 2024

Dear Ann and Glen,
My deepest sympathies at the loss of your beloved Louisa, who was by every account a spectacular young woman with a passion to make a difference in this oftentimes incomprehensible world. May her memory be a blessing. Much love, -David

~David Silva
~Cornell University Graduate School colleague, Swampscott, MA

January 5th, 2024

I met Louisa during college freshmen year in Spanish class, and since then we have often found each other in the same dance and language classes : from Doug Varone to Ballet to our mutual friend’s senior thesis. Louisa has always strike me as a gentle, sweet person with the tenacity and determination to accomplish her goals. One distinct memory I have of her was from our Ballet III class, where our professor asked Louisa to demonstrate a move to the rest of the class because hers was “text-book material”. I am at a loss for words to describe the profound emptiness Louisa’s departure has left behind. I will always keep her and our time together at Swarthmore in my memories.

~Jessica Yang
~Friend, Swarthmore College, New York, New York

January 5th, 2024

I did not know Louisa well, but even so I thought highly of her. She possessed a quiet self-confidence and deep thoughtfulness, and she was a wonderful dancer and choreographer. She was in large part responsible for one of my most fulfilling artistic experiences and favorite memories of Swarthmore, which was participating in a dance-theater-y version of The Tempest. Louisa was the superb choreographer of that show.

I know how much she loved Vitor and remember her sharing once that despite her excitement about studying abroad she was also sad about being apart from him for those months. My heart breaks for him and for her entire family.

~Lydia Roe
~Fellow Swarthmore student,

January 5th, 2024

Louisa is in my heart as a wonderful daughter and sister. I cannot comprehend this senseless loss. I remember sitting with the whole family, grandparents too, at Evan and Benny’s soccer games. May her memory be a blessing for us all.

~Jennifer Albom
~Friend & Neighbor, Chicago, Illinois

January 4th, 2024

To Glen, Ann, Evan, and the entire family and circle of friends who knew and loved Louisa, my heart breaks for you all. I had the pleasure of meeting Louisa several times over the years, always at larger Carman family gatherings that I was fortunate enough to drop in on from time to time. She was a bright light, and a brilliant soul. I hope that you can feel the love that surrounds you now and that it brings you some measure of peace in the weeks and months ahead. ❤️

~Karen Guth
~Friend of Aunt Kate Robinson, and the Carman Family, Portland, Oregon

January 4th, 2024

Dear Ann, Glen, Evan, and the family,

Words seem so inadequate at a time like this, but I want you to know that I am deeply sorry for your loss, and I am here for you.

Ratree Wayland

~Ratree Wayland
~, Gainesville

January 4th, 2024

I am shattered by this news and am holding all who loved this extraordinary young woman in my prayers. May you find peace and comfort in your loving memories and may you be granted strength and healing in each other’s company.

~Kristy Riley
~Colleague and former student of Ann’s, Glen Ellyn, IL

January 4th, 2024

Louisa and I met our freshman year at Swarthmore College. As students with a long history and passion for dance, we became bonded and maintained a friendship that lasted us beyond our undergraduate careers. Our passions not only drove us to pursue degrees in dance, but also inspired us to pursue external dance opportunities including performing at the Kennedy Center and learning repertoire from local established dance companies. Our dance sisterhood even bonded us to perform and contribute to one another’s senior thesis projects, an artistic collaboration and experience that I will cherish for the rest of my life. I feel so lucky and blessed to have crossed paths and to have shared the sacred artform of dance with such a beautiful soul. Louisa’s kindness, grace, intelligence, creativity, and radiant smile could light up the world. The tragedy of her loss leaves the Earth dimmer. I hope to dance again with my beautiful friend in the next life…
I absolutely cherish a recent time Louisa and I spent together. At a dinner and evening walk throughout Philadelphia, Louisa and I shared our feelings about the chapter after graduating undergrad and all of the surprises and newness that young adulthood had to bring. We shared smiles and laughs about the dreams we had for our careers and personal lives. Louisa’s passion to improve the lives of others was like no other and I have no doubt she would have changed the lives of many. Louisa’s smile radiated the most when she shared her pride in her partner, Vitor, and his career passions in scientific research. It was an absolute delight to see my two friends share such love and prosperous career trajectories.
I am devastated and heartbroken Louisa has left our world at such a young age. I send comfort and love to her loved ones who grieve deeply. I wish for her peace and believe she is leaping in the heavens looking down upon us…

~Lia D’Alessandro
~Swarthmore College Friend, Boston, MA

January 4th, 2024

Dear Ann, Glen, and Evan, Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your beautiful daughter and sister, Louisa. My heart breaks for you all. May Louisa rest in eternal peace.

Renée

~Renee Zakia
~friend, Cary

January 4th, 2024

todavía no puedo entender que ha pasado. !! Para mi Louisa era como una sobrina. La conocí de bien pequeñita y pude disfrutar de ella y Evan, junto con mi hijo Alex, cuando vivieron un tiempo en España. He estado al día de su crecimiento y sus avances, a través de su padre (mi hermano). Aún me duelen las palabras que daban esta terrible noticia. Adoro a esa familia y los que les rodean, por defecto. Conocí a sus abuelos y familia paterna desde hace 40 años. Así Ann ha formado también parte de mi vida en mi relación con ellos.
Todo mi amor a Ann, Glen, Evan y Vitor. SIEMPRE ESTARE AQUI PARA VOSOTROS y recordaré a Louisa por lo preciosa que era (por dentro y por fuera.

~ROSA
~Herman <8española<) de Glen y Ann, Madrid

January 4th, 2024

Glen, Ann and Evan, our thoughts are with you. We are so sorry for your loss.

~Selwyn gordon
~Friend, Chicago, il

January 4th, 2024

Louisa was a lovely woman and will be greatly missed.

~Flavia Aguiar Soares
~Aunt in law, from Brazil, Belo Horizonte – MG

January 4th, 2024

Dear Ann, Glen, and family,
I am so sorry for your loss.

~Yetunde Laniran
~Family Friend, Portland, OR

January 4th, 2024

Louisa will be missed by everyone that knew her

~Warney Soares
~Uncle in law from Brazil, Belo Horizonte – MG

January 4th, 2024

I taught Louisa for three years in middle school, and she left such an indelible impression on me. At an age where so many kids struggle to be kind, Louisa was always a caring, mature, thoughtful leader in the classroom. She didn’t speak loudly, but when she did people listened. I was not at all surprised to see that she had oriented her life toward making a difference in the world. I know she made a difference in my life and in the lives of her friends at Baker. I’ll always hold a special place in my heart for that first advisory class of my career, and Louisa was a huge part of what made that group special.

Mr. Haines

~Kent (Alex) Haines
~Teacher, Baker Demonstration School, Birmingham, AL

January 4th, 2024

I first met Louisa in San Francisco. Her parents were attending a conference and she was a wee baby. Her father, Glen, is my daughter’s step-brother and once I moved to Philadelphia and he was attending Swarthmore we got to see each other more often. Then Louisa came to Swarthmore and I was able to get to know her better. So lovely, smart, fun and caring. My love to all Carmans now and forever. Sally Baldus

~sally baldus
~Friend, philadelphia

January 4th, 2024

Every memory I have of Louisa is of her endless kindness, talent, and intelligence. She made it all look so easy. Sending my condolences for the loss of your beautiful daughter. Her spirit remains all around you and with you forever 🤍

~grace
~friend,

January 4th, 2024

Riding bikes with Vitor and Louisa

~Stavi Tennenbaum
~Friend, Princeton, NJ

January 4th, 2024

Dear Glen, Ann, and family,

We offer our deepest condolences on the passing of your beloved Louisa. She was a beautiful, talented and caring person. Her impact was immeasurable. During this time of grief, may you find solace in the love and memories you shared with your daughter. Louisa’s spirit lives on in the lives she touched.

With great sadness,
Lis, Tim, Laura and Audrey Swain

~Lisbeth Swain & Family
~Friend and Colleague of Glen, Chicago

January 4th, 2024

Our heartfelt condolences to Glen, Ann, Evan, Vitor and all the family. I remember when Ann told us that she was pregnant and I asked them if they had a name in mind. She told us the baby would be named after one of her grandfathers. I thought what a wonderful gift. Later as we met Louisa I remember what a perfect combination of Glen and Ann she was. We embrace you with sadness and great love.

~Christian Goergen
~Friend, Waldburg Germany

January 4th, 2024

Lisa made the world a better place during her short life.. We will forever treasure these memories. I remember Louisa as a little girl at our dinner table showing Evan how to put sliced strawberries in a ready made eatable dessert cups. I remember I thought how nice it was to have them in our house. But I remember further back when Glen and Ann told us they were expecting a child and I put my hand on her belly (a sign of welcoming a child into the world). May your light continue to shine on us Louisa!

~Juana Goergen
~Friend, Waldburg Germany

January 4th, 2024

Louisa and I were good friends in high school. She was one of my kindest friends at Jones. We had Spanish class together sophomore year and I remember how she would always be willing to help others better understand the material. We did not stay in touch after high school but I always recalled how nice she was. Everyone who knew Louisa liked her.

I remember helping Louisa with her instagram as she didn’t like to post and I liked using instagram back then. Louisa shared her passion for dance and I told her the pose looked like a super hero. I had recently learned how to use photoshop in my digital imaging class and photoshopped her into SpiderMan. This photo specifically was so funny and we shared a lot of laughs on the other posts as well.

May Louisa rest in peace and let us remember to spread kindness.

~Joe (Joey) Bergren
~Friend, Atlanta, GA

January 4th, 2024

Louisa was my first year advisee, and I continued to advise her through much of her time at Swarthmore. She was a phenomenal student—creative, inquisitive, and articulate, but also generous and kind. Some of my favorite memories of Louisa are: the beautiful accumulation phrase she created in my Dance Lab I class (from that moment on I knew I would learn as much from her as she learned from me); her inventive choreography for The Tempest during the spring of her first year at Swarthmore; working with her on The Wedding Guest for the Kennedy Center trip and Christopher K. Morgan’s In the Cold Room; and watching her choreography develop in new and inventive ways, culminating in a spectacular senior project (Duets Set in Stone). Even when Louisa had more information or experience than others in the class, she always pitched in with generous and respectful feedback, setting the tone for a collegial, rigorous, and friendly experience for all. It is so hard for me to imagine her no longer in motion.

~Olivia Sabee
~professor, Swarthmore, PA

January 4th, 2024

Our daughter, Natalie, and Louisa became friends in kindergarten at Baker demonstration school. Louisa would often come to our house and play with Natalie or Natalie would go to hers and play with Louisa and Evan. They were both at an age where there was a lot of schlepping to and from school, activities, etc. Though it was certainly hectic at times, I really cherish the memories of our daughters playing together and growing and learning. Louisa, Ann and Glen have been such a big part of our lives, and these are memories that we will always keep with us. I am beyond heartbroken.

~David Lovinger
~Friend, Evanston, IL

January 3rd, 2024

A message of love and shared sorrow for you all and to remind Ann that she is an extraordinary and wonderful woman who has clearly been a wonderful mother to such an outstanding and accomplished daughter. I hope you find some peace and relief with those huddled around you at this time.

~Neville Sweijd
~Old friend of Ann, Cape Town