Service Information
Service Location: Shalom Chapel Service
Shalom Memorial Funeral Home
1700 West Rand Road
Arlington Heights, IL 60004
Interment:
Shalom Memorial Park
1700 W. Rand Road
Arlington Heights
Shiva Information
Shiva Information
The Birchwood Club
1174 Park Avenue West
Highland Park, Illinois 60035
Wednesday, 4:30 PM – 8:30 PM
Contributions
Tunnel to Towers Foundation
t2t.org
or
Gary Sinise Foundation
garysinisefoundation.org
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March 23rd, 2025
Tom has shared many family stories with us over the years, and spoken very fondly of Harriet. We want to offer our condolences to both him and the family.
~Mary Lowhorn
~Friend/Client, Homer Glen
March 22nd, 2025
Condolences to Tom and to Harriet’s beloved children and grandchildren. I enjoyed our many conversations over the years as we “shared” Addie and Miles. She was a special woman. We will all feel her loss.
~Barbara Berger
~Friend, Highland Park Il
March 21st, 2025
to Tom and the entire Stiller family, my thoughts are with you at this difficult time. I was with Harriet and Tom for several dinners and it was always a lovely evening! Conversations were always interesting and it was nice hearing about her children and grandchildren. I know she will be missed, but always treasure your memories. Fondly, Sandy Shapiro
~Sandra Shapiro
~friend, skokie, il.
March 20th, 2025
At the last reunion, Harriet and I had a martini together and talked about our memories at Mt. Sinai nursing school.
She was a hoot and I thoroughly enjoyed being with her…
~Susan Carsello Cozzi
~Friend, Tampa, Florida
March 20th, 2025
Harriet was my second mother. She was truly unique and special.
Aside from having such a wonderful childhood, growing up with the Stiller’s and spending weekends at 730 Smoketree Road.
Harriet has meant so much to me later in life too, both her and Tom helping me and my family when we needed it the most.
The fact that Harriet got to meet my daughter Briella and my wife Frances at a beautiful ocean side restaurant in Boca Raton and gave her something that belonged to my mother was one of the happiest moment of my life.
I cherish all of my formative years and as Heidi, Stephanie and Sean all said,
Harriet and Carole together again.
My most heartfelt condolences to all of you.
Harriet Stiller, I will always love you.
RIP
~Jason Baran
~Extended Family, Boca Raton
March 19th, 2025
The many years Susan and I have known both you and Harriet, and our friendship dating back to our East Rodger Park days.
~Susan and Richard Konst
~friend, Wilmette, illinois
March 19th, 2025
She touched lives of all who knew her. She will be missed always. Wishing all of us that loved her peace and comfort in the memories we have. May her memory be an eternal blessing.
~Liha & Chris Arnold
~Family Friend, Evanston
March 19th, 2025
My prayers for comfort at this time for all family members. Harriet was a dear friend to me. A great mother and grandmother(Gaga). A strong matriarch. The center strength for your family.
~Ruth Katz
~Friend, Melrose ParkI
March 18th, 2025
Through the same close friend I know Tom and had the pleasure of meeting Harriet once. Tom’s love and devotion to her came through. I send Tom and close friends and family my condolences and support as you mourn.
~Rich Schefke
~, Tennesee
March 18th, 2025
We shared our whole lives together, for the 70 years we have been dear friends..mostly good, but supported each other even with the bad.. our families intertwined adding another layer to the relationship. We will all will miss Harriet, who often made us laugh, as Harriet spoke her mind….but Harriet’s determination was admirable & she survived the many times anyone else would not have .my dearest longtime friend will be sorely missed.
~Adrienne Russ
~Close dear friends, Highland Park,Illinois
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