Perle Abrahamson

April 18th, 2025

I remember Perle from my earliest days in Chicago.
Perle and my mother, both pianists of considerable proficiency, had met in the 1960s as members of Musarts, a women’s arts group, and from there, a life-long friendship was born.
In later years, after resettling in Arizona, Perle and I talked by phone about politics, religion, the arts, and of course, my late mother.
Perle never lost her enquiring mind, a basic curiosity that kept her young, along with her sense of humor and unfailing kindness and consideration for others.
The last time I visited Perle and her husband Irving in Chicago, Perle played a Mozart sonatina on her piano, a work my mother also had in her keyboard repertoire. Perle’s sense of line, dynamics, tone~ all were the hallmarks of an experienced artist. I did not fully grasp at the time what a remarkable experience it was or how meaningful it would remain, as it has, in my memory.
Perle cultivated younger friendships in order to remain young, she told me years ago, a wise maxim also shared by my mother. After my mother’s death in 2020, Perle’s friendship meant even more to me, and on many different levels and for many personal reasons.
I consider myself fortunate to have known Perle and Irving, both remarkable human beings in whose orbit we all shone.

RIP, dear lady~

~Carl J Halperin
~Longtime family friend, Raleigh, NC

April 16th, 2025

Maris, I’m so sorry for your loss. When you and I visited Perle at her apartment, she was so warm, enthusiastic, and full of life. How lucky you were to have had such a close relationship with her and your dad. Your mom may not be visible anymore, but she will present with you always. Now you are available for more adventures, more joy and more love in your life. Hopefully, we can explore things together and see what we can come up with. Go buy a new fishing pole, put some bait on it, and throw it in the water. You’ll be surprised what that pole can bring you. Who knows, with your storytelling ability, a comedy club or Saturday Night Live may recruit you to be their newest comedy star. My kids, Allison and Brigette think you’re the greatest thing since sliced bread, and I look forward to getting together with you to laugh our heads off. You have always been strong and brave, so keep your head up high, and be ready to receive a big hug from me when we meet. Love and more love, Lynda

~Lynda O’Connor
~Great friend for about 60 years, Lake Forest

April 16th, 2025

Dear Maris, “Goodbyes are only for those who love with their eyes. Because for those who love with heart and soul, there is no such thing as separation.” – Rumi With all our love at this sad time.

~Catherine Reich
~My dear friend, Springfield, Illinois

April 16th, 2025

Dear Maris,
I am so honored that I met you, your Mom and Irving many years ago. Your Mom was a very beautiful, smart, talented, cultured and elegant woman. I am so thankful that I got to spend some time with her last year. I really admired the way that you honored and cared for her so diligently and respectfully to the very end. You would most definitely be given the “Daughter of the Century”award. Your Mom knew all of this and I’m sure that she was very grateful for your unwavering dedication to both she and Irving, and for caring for them in such an unselfish and truly loving way.
May your Mom rest in perfect peace and continue to be by your side and in your heart, always and forever! With our deepest sympathy,
Love your friends,
Sue and Bob

~Susan Y Gerber
~Dear friend, Cherry Hill

April 16th, 2025

Dear Maris,
You were truly the most loving and caring daughter a parent could ever want. I loved hearing about your mother and father over the years through our conversations. I still have the beautiful cookie from Perle’s 100th Birthday. It sits on my desk at home.
Thank you for letting me share parts of your life with you.
Love,
Sharon

~Sharon Kobernik
~Friend, Glenview, IL

April 16th, 2025

Dear Maris,
The journey that you took with your mother was loving, meaningful, and so very brave.
You gave her joy and dignity
& encouraged her to do what made her happy and to keep moving forward.
You were the true diamond in pearl‘s collection. Of a treasured life.

~Jill Ferdinand
~Friend, Il.

April 16th, 2025

Maris, wishing you peace and comfort in your time of loss. Perle was a wonderful person and will be missed.
With heartfelt condolences,
Pat Jazo

~Patricia Jazo
~Friend, Scottsdale AZ

April 15th, 2025

Oh Maris I’m so sorry. I know how hard this is and you were so fortunate to have your mom for such a great long time. I’ve always been envious. She lived a remarkable life and had you there for her. What a mitzva. I think your mom knew how fortunate she was. You are in my soul as you navigate these days, weeks and years. Take care of yourself cuz your mother would want you to. Love and prayers and hugs to you my sweet friend. And love to Perle. May she be reunited with all your loved ones. ❤️❤️❤️

~Adrienne Battin
~Friends since high school., Boynton Beach, Fl

April 14th, 2025

Dear Maris,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Your Mom was indeed a pearl, a gem! I was so honored to be included in her 99th & 100th birthday parties. I have never been so impressed with the dignity, intelligence & talent with anyone other than Pearle! What a special woman; and let me say, Maris….The Apple doesn’t fall far from the.tree!”
With Love,
Janet

~Janet Lottman
~Mari’s’ friend, Scottsdale, AZ

April 14th, 2025

🌞dear Maris! thank you for sending the link to Shalom Memorial……look forward to watching Perle’s service. (was able to save the video of Irving’s internment and viewed it a number of times before it was no longer available.) Perle was a Perfectly Elegant Really Loved Extraordinary friend. 💕
You have been such a blessing to both of your parents. We know you still have much ahead of you yet but are so happy you have Bob (💝) to give you strong support. We are back in Maravilla on the 30th and if it isn’t too late will offer help in any way. We pray for you & Bob and for Perle’s soul…sending our love!
♥️😘🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😘

~The Weber’s
~friends, Scottsdale AZ

April 14th, 2025

Maris,
Thank you for thinking of me in this
difficult time, you are your mother’s daughter for sure. We will miss Perle and have missed Perle these last few months. She was a remarkable woman, so special and in her own way made me feel special too. She has a special place in my heart forever. I’m blessed to have known her.Love, Peg Defazio-Howe

~Mrs Margaret DeFazio-Howe
~Maravilla family, Scottsdale, AZ

April 13th, 2025

Maris …Perle was a lovely , warm woman of great intelligence and talent. Her many interests and talents made her a joy to be around. There were always interesting conversations , with a dose of humor for good measure. I feel fortunate to have know her and will miss her friendship..

Ann…a friend at Maravilla,

~Ann Bambergr
~Friend, Scottsdale, AZ

April 13th, 2025

Maris, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother Pearl.
The first time we met I knew you were a special person.. Our friendship began to blossom. We kept in touch by the lovely letters you wrote and through the phone. Once again I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear mother. 🙏

~Deborah and Dave
~Friend, Florida

April 12th, 2025

Deepest sympathy, Maris Your mother lived a very long life. Now she has earned her wings & will be lovingly hovering over you. Much sympathy to your sister, family & friends.

~Bonnie Deibel
~Friend. To Maris, Platteville, CO

April 12th, 2025

and He will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away. I’ll wait for my Dear Perle’s resurrection… here, on the Earth. That’s the most beautiful promise from my God…..

~Estera
~Caregiver, Arizona. Phoenix

April 12th, 2025

We had the pleasure of meeting Pearl, Irving and Maris in Savannah, Georgia. many years ago. We met while having breakfast and we’ve been friends ever since. Through Maris we’ve kept up with how Pearl and Irving have been doing. After Irving passed Maris continued on caring for her Mom. Pearl was a special lady. She will sadly be missed.

~Deborah & Dave Grant
~Friend, Delray Beach, Florida 33484

April 11th, 2025

Maris we had some wonderful times with Perle. I loved the Friday Shabbos you came to our house and our children asked her so many questions.
Hugs love and may you soon see RAINBOWS to warm your heart.

~Pinki
~Friend, Phoenix, AZ

April 11th, 2025

Dear Perle was a cherished part of my family. We met some 60years ago through music and we have been friends ever since. We shared so many life events and celebrations. There were so many lovely evenings at Perle’s home where she and Irving were the consummate hosts with music, exquisite food and enlightened conversation. Perle was so wise, compassionate. empathic, with a delightful sense of humor. She was my go-to friend through thick and thin. She was truly one-in-a-million and I am deeply saddened to realize that she is no longer with us here on Earth. She is sorely missed but will always live on in our hearts . REST IN PEACE dear friend!

~Helene Alter-Dyche
~long-time friend, Chicago, Illinois

April 10th, 2025

My dear lifelong friend, Maris ~

A bright and beautiful light went out at 5:20 a.m. on Saturday, April 5th … and we will all feel the warmth and the glow from that light for the rest of our lives. Perle was a very unique person in all respects. Everyone who knew her felt blessed by her presence, knowledge, wisdom, intelligence and her ability to make people feel respected, seen and heard.

She has left us with a lifetime of precious memories.

“Blessed are they who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”

Shine on, dear Perle; shine on …

Always with love,
Michele

~Michele Holiday
~friend, PHOENIX